Don't be discouraged. Finding a person who fits and refines you isn't a race.
Take your time.
Your dreams do not, will not, and cannot begin only when a man steps in the picture. God created you for a purpose. Your life is just as significant in this season of singleness as it will be in any other season.
Don't waste it by waiting
Pack that bag, book that flight, and wander that road. One day you might miss this freedom. Enjoy learning yourself before you commit to learning someone else.
I promise it'll be fun.
Deal with the sadness and the bitterness because they will not go away on their own. Have faith that God is moving and choose joy while you wait.
Then you will be ready.
All praise goes to God, Father of our Lord Jesus, the Anointed One. He is the Father of compassion, the God of all comfort. He consoles us as we endure the pain and hardship of life so that we may draw from His comfort and share it with others in their own struggles.
2 Corinthians 1:3-4